Happiness and Maturity

well not if u spend the night like I did…..
this guy had come over for some test….
1) he calls me up on friday evening that next day evening he will come over to my place…. with no regard to what i might be doing.
2) since i live walkable distance from the airport… and had some other work… i left clear cut directions with his parents (including landmarks and turns) which he never bothered to pick up.
3) it took him 1.5 hours to reach my place…. why because he was busy chatting with one of his friends who also was traveling with him.. so he reached my place at 1:30am.
4) Since his cellphone did not have any balance.. he did not inform me he would be delayed.
5) his shoes stinked….. i had to throw them out of my house.
6) i had told him that we have to leave at 8:00am… and even gave him a simple mechanical alarm clock. but it was too complicated for him so he woke up at 7:45 am
7) he had no clue where the exam was… had no maps or directions with him

should i say more.
BTW he forgot to say thanks to me, or even a courtesy apology for keeping me awake all night.

hmm.. so the first part is justified..
sorry that u were at the receiving end.
what abt the second ?

//i got the better deal… he gave me a post to write… and crystallize the idea.//
great attitude , 100% 😉

//why r nuclear families so much cherished by women?//
Just so that their men can be a happier lot 🙂

//why is the ghar-jamai (son in law staying with the girl’s parents) a bad word?//
Is it bcos men like to have a false sense of control ?

@sree
//the same men who take utmost care of thier in-laws when they come to live with them .//
its like gajjar ka halwa (a desert) i love it… but in moderation.

#//why r nuclear families so much cherished by women?//
Just so that their men can be a happier lot :)#
so u agree to my theory.

#//why is the ghar-jamai (son in law staying with the girl’s parents) a bad word?//
Is it bcos men like to have a false sense of control ?#
whatever… but a separate house, finances, and work works excellently well for them… familiarity breeds contempt

//its like gajjar ka halwa (a desert) i love it… but in moderation.//
and bcos its served at ur place 😛 u can moderate :))

//#//why r nuclear families so much cherished by women?//
Just so that their men can be a happier lot :)#
so u agree to my theory. //
But , ofcourse I agree…its such a noble thought 🙂
//whatever… but a separate house, finances, and work works excellently well for them… //
well..on a serious note..a man who has his eyes only on
having a good family life and not making a career out of a marriage wld never consent to such an arrangement .

//if good family life = happiness then the theory works…//
why ? is there anything else?

lemme check the link.

// haven’t u heard of the “Inheritance powder”.//
I just did .
I think its a risk the in-laws have to face for having a hostile son-in-law under their roof.
well…anyways what has the son-in-law to complain about ?

Euthanasia ?

Probably they deserve it, if its an arranged marriage .

and imagine P..how’d it be when he finds out later that the son has inherited it all =))

hmm yes..now I am getting interested..afterall there is something in it for me 😛

@prerna
I remember your words
“most Indian cubs are not ready to be kicked out and the mothers are not ready to cut the umbilical cord.”

yups everything is all right…. 🙂 i was just trying to postulate a theory